By Alessandra Bulow
Updated June 07, 2017
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What can someone like me, a girl living in Queens, NY, possibly learn from a bunch of Park Avenue socialites with names like Muffie Potter Aston? A lot, I learned, after I read Park Avenue Potluck Celebrations, a new book by New York Times columnist Florence Fabrikant; it's a compilation of recipes and entertaining tips from some of the city’s most celebrated hostesses and members of The Society of Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center (proceeds from the book will go to the center). Here, a few surprisingly down-to-earth tips from high society that I'll actually adopt:

  • 1. Be worldly—follow the Swedish tradition of eating birthday cake for breakfast on your birthday.
  • 2. Drink a cocktail before party guests arrive—it'll loosen you up and make you a better hostess.
  • 3. Be a gracious and unflappable hostess, unperturbed by spilled wine or a crying child. Note: See #2, which will help.
  • 4. Lottery tickets make great place cards—that’s one way to make it to Park Avenue.
  • 5. Note for next year: Hand out to-go wine cups for parents accompanying trick-or-treaters on Halloween.