1. Champagne always works.
This sparkling wine is great for people you know well and people you've never met before. It's a universal gesture of celebration. And your hosts can easily regift it. The wine doesn't have to be expensive: I like Pol Roger Brut Reserve ($45) and Pommery Brut Royal ($42).
2. Select a wine with broad personal and culinary appeal.
For Americans right now, that means Pinot Noir from California, Oregon, France and even Argentina. California Pinot Noirs I love include Calera's 2007 Central Coast ($24) and Rusack's 2007 Santa Barbara County ($30). As for Argentina, I'm a fan of the Pinot by Luigi Bosca ($18).
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3. If you're giving the hosts a special bottle, tell them ahead of time.
Ask about the food they plan to serve and tell them you have the perfect wine to go with it. All the collectors I know do this; it's not rude, it's helpful.